... I use my rear as a helper and when I have to just slow down and not come to a complete stop.
My concern...when I had to jam on my front brake and to keep from wrecking the bike and having to steer in that situation I would really need to rely on my rear brake.
I will go through a few practice runs in a parking lot before my honeymoon.
maybe its just the way you phrase things, you threw up a lot of red flags in three sentences...
its better to always use both brakes together, so the bike always responds the same way. There are exceptions like trail-braking hot thru a tight curve, but for normal riding situations you want your muscle memory to kick in
never jam on the front brake - that is the most common cause of dropping the bike. Sit on your bike and lock the front brake and push forward on the grips. Notice how the front shock loads up and the front drops. You want to apply an increasing pressure to the front brake when stopping so the weight shifts forward and the shocks load up and drop as you apply it. In the MSF course they call this progressive braking. You can load it up quickly, a second is good - half a second is ok...
the more weight that has shifted to the front tire, the more braking power it has. So if you just 'jam' on the front brake the front tire will stop spinning.
This is a good time to point out the only thing that keeps a motorcycle from falling over at speed is the wonderful gyroscopic forces of the heavy spinning tires. When the wheels stop spinning the bike will fall over (just like when you stop for a light).
the other red flag you threw up is braking and steering to avoid a collision - you need to chose one: either brake to a stop, or swerve to avoid a collision. When its all or nothing you cannot do both, and you will spend the rest of your life telling people "I had to lay that bike down..." the bike will lay itself down
when you are riding normally and not pushing the bike to its limits, you can brake in a curve or corner if you countersteer to keep the bike going where you want it to go - but if you are using up all your traction for one (steering or braking) adding the second will make the tire skid out. If you are going fast enough in a curve to feel panic, then steer around an obstacle, or straighten the bike first, then panic stop. If need to steer around something go wide if you can.
Im not intending to question your riding abilities - we are discussing this where hundreds of new riders could see it over the next 10 years, its important to be clear when it comes to things that frequently cause accidents.